Who Would You Be?

Daily writing prompt
If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?

If I could be someone else for a day… Good question. Who WOULD I be? I have only ever been myself. Sometimes selfless… Sometimes selfish… Most of the time, just living day to day trying to survive.

I’m not sure I’d be okay with being rich for one day. Or, if I was rich for one day, I think I would take the opportunity to help those around me in need. For instance, there is a coworker who I know needs a new reliable vehicle. I would probably take care of that for them. And there are others that struggle to pay their rent. I’d help them as well.

I think if I could be someone else for a day, I would be a humanitarian. I am this every day already, I just don’t have the financial means to truly make a difference.

Who would you be? Would you be someone’s hero?

It’s Been Too Long

I’m so sorry that it has been so long since I have last written. So much has happened since my last post five years ago. My father gifted me his house when he decided to move to Florida and live with my brother and his significant other. I’m a first time home owner! Not as exciting as most people, but still pretty cool.

I am living here with my son who has been an enormous amount of support for me these past several years. He helps keep the house taken care of while I deal with health issues and work necessities.

Most recently, I FINALLY have affordable health insurance thanks to new healthcare laws. It’s only $28 per month for me and my son for health insurance. Yay! Just in time for me to have some interesting health issues since before 2020.

I have not ever had COVID, thankfully. Heck, until this season (2023/2024), I haven’t even so much as had a cold since before 2020. However, this year, working in the healthcare field, I have now been sick from a cold, the flu, bronchitis and now a double-ear infection combined with a sinus infection. Yay! (NOT!)

I went to pick up a prescription yesterday for the ear infection/sinus infection and found out it was going to cost me $92 WITH the insurance. Are you kidding me? I was expecting maybe $20ish but NOT $92. This meant I had to wait until today to get the prescription because today is payday and I only had $40 left yesterday (the life of living in a single-income household).

This made me angry. Why? Because I live in rural Texas. The prescription was at my local pharmacy/grocery store. The single most important prescription was $81.70. I chose this pharmacy to use because I REALLY wasn’t feeling up to driving 20-30 miles to the next closest pharmacy. However, upon research, I found that the same prescription with Good Rx was $50 cheaper if I had just driven 20ish miles a couple of towns over. That’s insane!

Corporations take advantage of people WAY too much when individuals need them the most. Next time, if I am able, I WILL be making that drive. I will ONLY use my local pharmacy when I have NO other choice.

I hope is well with all of you. I hope to be writing more as time progresses.

House Rental Search 2019

House Search

I currently live in a 2-bedroom, 1.5 bath townhome in Dallas, Texas.  For various reasons, my kids and I have decided to try and find a house to rent together.  In this search, I have discovered a few things that annoy me about the house search process.  I’d like to share them with you here.

First, I would like to state that we are mostly using a website called Trulia.  We actually really like this site in comparison to many other sites that we could be using.  Here’s a list of the reasons why:

  1. Trulia allows you to view the home’s area’s crime rate, which is really cool so you don’t accidentally get stuck in a high crime area.Screen Shot 2019-07-27 at 9.31.58 AM
  2. It also allows provides you with a link to Google’s Street View so you can take a physical look at the neighborhood without ever leaving your computer screen.Screen Shot 2019-07-27 at 9.34.18 AM
  3. You can also see photos of the home, amenities, square footage as well as how many days a home has been listed on Trulia.

All this is truly great and I highly recommend using this site for your next home search (works for rentals as well as purchasing a home).

What annoys me about many of the listings is the following:

  1. All listings should include: List of appliances that are provided, list of utility companies that you can use, average cost of utilities based on previous homeowner’s/renters, how many pets are allowed if any, what is the pet rent for each pet, what is the pet deposit for each pet, what types of pets are allowed.
  2. The listings should also include the name of the agent, the name of the management company if applicable, the hours of operation for said agent/management company and a link to the applicable website for said agent/management company.
  3. All listings should also include information about the application process (i.e., cost, length of time the application can take to be accepted, what is expected in detail after acceptance, etc.).

All these things would make finding a home to rent/buy much easier without wasting anyone’s valuable time.

 

Sale! Sale! Sale!

I have a few items for sale on eBay!  Only a few hours left on some of them, so check them out before they are gone!  All proceeds go to help my kid who recently moved 1,200 miles away from me to Wisconsin.  Every little bit helps as they get settled, find a job and start earning that paycheck.

Yuri from Yuri On Ice

Buy it Now for only $10.30

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Victor from Yuri On Ice

Buy it Now for only $10.30

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Deadpool Dress

Buy it Now for only $25.00

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Red Robin Chess Piece

Buy it Now for only $25.00

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Welcome to the World, Black Mold!

Tuesday was a pretty good day.  I took the day off of work to take my kid to their orthodontist appointment and found out that they were ready to have their braces taken off just in time for their move to Wisconsin.  This was great news because we were worried about the cost of having them removed by a different orthodontist.  They scheduled the removal for early Friday morning.

Braces

Wednesday wasn’t too bad of a day.  My son moved in with me bringing with him way too much stuff (my living room is currently filled with boxes and those boxes are mostly filled with books).  I believe I am going to like living with my son and getting to know him as a person.

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In the process of moving things around in my kids’ room, they moved the dresser that shared the wall with the main bathroom which recently had a leak that maintenance had repaired.  When they moved the dresser they found black mold on the carpet where the dresser had been.  Further investigation found black mold inside the bathroom cabinets as well as a huge hole that was caused when the maintenance man completed the leak repair.

After we had unloaded all of his boxes and furniture from the U-Haul, my son cooked dinner for all of us.  It was really nice to not have to be the one to cook for a change.  After dinner, the kids were going to go do a little grocery shopping.  They went to get into my son’s truck when, lo and behold, the darn thing wouldn’t start.  It didn’t even try to start the little bugger.  So, I had to let him use my car since we really needed the groceries.  I had him call his boss to let her know that he might not make it to work the next night unless we could get his car fixed when I got home from work.  That apparently wasn’t going to work because she really needed him to get to work, so I agreed to let him use my car so long as I could be guaranteed he’d be back in time for me to get my other kid to their orthodontist appointment on Friday.  So, that worked out alright.

So, my son took my car to work and at 5:45 in the morning he arrives home and wakes us up to inform us that his car was missing.  Yay!  Because we really needed this to be happening on top of everything else.  Freaking hell!

Tow Truck

Apparently the apartment complex had begun enforcing their parking permit rules without notifying ALL of their residents.  Lucky us!  So, they had his truck towed.

I got up eventually and took my kid to have their braces removed.  They couldn’t stop smiling and it was seriously amazing to see how happy something so simple as having straight teeth made them.

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When we got back we went to the management office of the apartment to have them change the lease.  Originally they wanted me to sign something that stated that my child had abandoned the property and I didn’t know how to locate them.  That just rubbed me the wrong way.  But the person who was helping us tried to insist because they couldn’t find the correct form.  Seriously?  I made her find the right form.

While we were there I asked about the towing and they tried to claim that I must be mistaken because “everyone” was informed and they had to sign this document stating the fact, so I said that they could look in my file and find that there was no such document signed by me.  Luckily, the assistant manager was much more reasonable and stated that she would call the towing company and have them release the vehicle to us at no charge because it was their mistake.  So, that was good.  She was supposed to call us when she heard back from the towing company’s owner.  (Still waiting)

The other subject I brought up while there was the black mold.  Once again, the assistant manager seemed very reasonable and stated that she would have the head of maintenance come by and take a look.  (I pointed out the fact that the maintenance guy who repaired the leak HAD to have known there was black mold when he closed up the wall.)

So, we waited at the apartment.  They sent the same guy who repaired the leak and he thought the leak was back.  I told him no and showed him the black mold.  He said they would replace the carpet and repair the wall.  I said no, that they had to replace the carpet, part of the floor board, the wall in the bedroom that shared the bathroom wall, the entire wall in the bathroom and treat any black mold found inside the wall.  He tried to claim that the black mold on the carpet wasn’t mold, but was damage from the water.  That’s when I really put my foot down and told him to talk with the head of maintenance.  He left and came back stating that the head of maintenance was very busy and would be by later, but in the meantime he would repair the bathroom wall.  I told him no, that I wanted the head of maintenance to see everything before any work was done.  He said it might not be until Monday.  I said fine, I’ll wait until Monday.

I know it is not good to be breathing in this crap, but him “fixing” the wall wasn’t going to fix the mold issue.  It needs to be done right.  So we wait.

Wait Here

In the meantime, my son still doesn’t have his truck.  I hope we can get it tomorrow and there is a mechanic that can look at it AND fix it on a Saturday.  If not, my son will just have to use my car again, which means I will have to go in late to work on Monday.  They better not charge storage fees at this towing company, because I am not paying them a single cent.

Changes

So, it’s been a while since I’ve last updated you on what’s been going on in my life.  In June of 2018, my kid and I moved to Dallas where I started a new job with the security company I was working for.  It’s been a bit of an adjustment living here without my parents’ support.  But it has been a good thing.

My kid decided that they wanted to go move to Wisconsin to live with their half-sister and nanny for their niece.  So, they leave this coming Saturday.  It has been stressful trying to get them there.  We’ve been shipping what they are planning on keeping and trying to sell those items that they think are worth some value on eBay.  It’s too expensive to rent a U-Haul cross-country, so UPS has become our friend.

My son moves in with me tomorrow to take over part of the lease.  It will be a tremendous help to me because it has been a little bit of a financial strain (everything has become so expensive!).  I’m looking forward to living with him.  It will give us a chance to really get to know each other.

Anyway, if you are interested in seeing what we currently have for sale, check out the link below.  Hope all is well with everyone who follows me!

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CrowArrow, Inc. eBay

Art for Sale

I’ve recently partnered with artist, John R. Wannall, and am currently selling his art prints on Etsy.  If you are interested, please check out my Etsy store and purchase one of these Pop Art prints.

All rights remain with the artist, John Wannall. The purchaser is granted possession of the artwork but permission must be sought for any reproduction rights from the artist. Which means you cannot reproduce any of my artwork without permission from me first.

Week One: Discovering Paganism

Day One:

I came to learn about Paganism many years ago when I was just a teenager.  It was a belief system that called to me more than any other religion every could.  The very first book I ever read on the subject was Raymond Buckland’s Complete Book of Witchcraft.  It was the beginning of a very long journey for me.

Pagan Sun

When I was 24, my kids were born and I decided that the structure of a church would be the best for raising them.  So, we began attending St. Ignatius of Antioch Episcopal Church near where I lived at the time.  It was good to have the community, but changes in the church dynamic started to turn me off and I no longer had the since of “home” that it once provided me.

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Saint Ignatius of Antioch  Image borrowed from: Wikipedia

So, for a time, I was wandering lost.  I still attempted to hold onto to the Christian faith, but it slowly became more of a chore than a true since of faith.

Recently, my daughter discovered paganism for herself.  While helping her discover her belief, I once again found my place in the pagan world.  I am glad to have rediscovered this faith and look forward to everyday that I discover something new.

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Silver and red poinsettias and bells are from the Dollar tree. The white and red berries were on sale at Michael’s Craft Store for 70% off.